How to Move Out of Your Parents House in 3 Months

Have you ever dreamt of independence? Do visions of your own apartment and decorating your space dance in your head? Moving out of your parents' house is a thrilling rite of passage, but it can also feel daunting. This comprehensive guide will equip you with the knowledge and tools to navigate the process with confidence!

We've broken down the journey into a clear, 12-step plan spread over three months. From budgeting and finding the perfect place to packing boxes and settling into your new digs, we'll cover everything you need to know. Whether you're yearning for freedom or simply curious about the next chapter, this guide is your roadmap to a smooth and successful move-out adventure!

So, grab your metaphorical keys, buckle up, and let's get ready to unlock the door to your independence!

How to Move Out of Your Parents House

Month 1: Budgeting and Planning

The first month is all about financial planning and planning for your move. Here, you’ll start building a budget so you can look for a place to live.

1. Create a Budget

Learning to budget might feel intimidating, but it empowers you to make informed financial decisions and reach your goal of moving out. Probably the biggest misconception about budgeting is that it only means setting a maximum amount you want to spend and then trying to keep yourself under that number. In reality, a good budget starts with you taking a serious, hard look at the current ways you are already spending money, and then making small adjustments that will allow you to be successful.

To get started, list all your income sources, including salary, side hustles, or any financial aid. Be sure to use your take-home pay (after taxes and deductions). Then, for a month, track everything you spend money on. Categorize expenses like rent (estimated amount for future apartment), groceries, transportation, entertainment, and any existing debts. There are budgeting apps or simple spreadsheets you can use. For instance, our rent calculator can help you figure out exactly how much you can afford to spend on rent.

Once you’ve gathered real-world data about how you actually spend, then it’s time to be honest about your spending habits. Look for areas where you can cut back without sacrificing your needs. Remember, unexpected costs arise, so factor in a buffer for emergencies.

We have a complete guide to budgeting for your first apartment if you’d like to learn more!

2. Set a Date Based on a Financial Goal

Review your budget and consider how much you need to save before moving. You can use this information to set a realistic target date based on your savings plan. Here’s what you’ll need in order to move:

• Security deposit (usually the cost of one-month’s rent)
• Application fee (usually between $50-$100)
• First month’s rent
• Start-up costs for utilities (usually not more than $150)
• Moving costs (can vary widely depending on how much you’re moving and how far)
• New furniture and household items (varies – see next steps)
• Pantry staples (varies)

Therefore, you should allow your savings plan to determine your final move date so that you know for sure you’ll have enough money to cover all of your expenses.

3. Start Building Your Savings

Now that you know what you need to save, you should start working toward it. Every penny counts! Set up automatic transfers to a designated savings account to accumulate funds for moving costs, security deposits, and initial apartment expenses. You can use budgeting apps (sometimes your bank will even make these available for free) to set a specific goal and track your progress toward it. Also, since you plan to move quickly anyway, it never hurts to see if you can snag an apartment special for a quick move date!

4. Start Looking for a Place

You want to start looking for a new apartment at least 2-3 months before you plan to move. While you’ll likely start your search online these days, you still want to take advantage of touring prospective apartments as much as possible, whether that means in-person or virtually. Don't be afraid to ask the landlord or property manager questions about the lease agreement, pet policies, parking availability, and any upcoming maintenance projects. Before signing anything, thoroughly read and understand the lease. This outlines your rights and responsibilities as a tenant.

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5. Find a Roommate If You Want One

Sharing an apartment can significantly reduce your living expenses. Discuss expectations and living styles with potential roommates beforehand. There’s a variety of ways to find a roommate, including a lot of online communities that specifically cater to roommate placement. Check out our guide on finding roommates to learn more.

Month 2: Signing and Packing

Month two is all about finalizing your plans to move. Here, you’ll sign your lease and start preparing for the move itself.

6. Sign a Lease

Congratulations, you've found your perfect place! Before signing on the dotted line, make sure you understand everything in the lease agreement. Carefully review details like the rental term, monthly rent amount, security deposit, allowed utilities, pet policies, and maintenance procedures. Don't hesitate to ask the landlord or property manager to clarify anything you don't understand.

7. Hire Movers or Rent a Van

Depending on the size of your move and your budget, you may decide to hire professional movers or rent a moving van. Research companies in your area and get quotes. Consider factors like insurance options, service offerings (packing/unpacking), and overall cost when making your decision. Once you know your move-in date, try to find a mover or van to rent as soon as possible.

8. Create a New Apartment Shopping List

This will help ensure you have everything you need to feel comfortable and settled in your new place. Consider items like furniture (bed, couch, table), kitchen essentials (pots, pans, dishes), cleaning supplies, bathroom necessities (shower curtain, towels), and any decorative touches you desire. Here are some resources to help you:

• First Time Apartment Renter’s Guide
• First Apartment Checklist
• First Apartment Grocery List
• 11 Documents Needed to Rent an Apartment

9. Set Up Utilities

Contact utility companies (electricity, gas, water, internet) to schedule service activation for your move-in date. Compare plans and pricing to find the best deals. You may also need to establish trash and recycling services with the local provider. Your new landlord will almost certainly provide you with a list of the utility companies you need to call before moving in.

Month 3: Moving and Recovering

Month 3 is all about the move! Here, you’ll make sure you’re ready to go by updating all of your addresses and personal information. Once you’ve moved, get ready to start rebuilding your finances.

10. Update Your Address with USPS and All Your Personal Accounts

This is crucial to ensure you don't miss important mail. Head to the USPS website to submit a change of address request. Don't forget to update your address with all your personal accounts like banks, credit cards, subscription services, and online retailers.

11. Move In

The big day is here! Whether you hired movers or tackled the move yourself, be prepared with a plan for unpacking and organizing your belongings. Label boxes clearly and prioritize unpacking essentials like toiletries, dishes, and bedding.

12. Rebuild Your Emergency Fund

Moving expenses can deplete your savings. Once settled, refocus on building your emergency fund back up. Aim to save enough to cover unexpected costs like car repairs or medical bills.

What Is a Normal Age to Move Out of My Parents?

There's no single "normal" age to move out. It depends on various factors like your cultural background, financial situation, and personal goals. In the US, the average age to move out falls somewhere between 24 and 27 years old. However, this is just an average, and many people move out sooner or later depending on their circumstances.

How Can I Feel OK About Moving Out of My Parents House?

The key to feeling okay about moving out is feeling prepared. This 12-step guide outlines a roadmap to get you financially and logistically ready for independence. Open communication with your parents is also important. Discuss your timeline and expectations, and address any concerns they might have.

How Much Money Do You Need to Move Out of Your Parents?

There's no one-size-fits-all answer, but it's wise to factor in several costs:

• Security Deposit and First Month's Rent: Most apartments require this upfront.
• Moving Costs: This could include hiring movers, renting a truck, or gas for your car.
• Furniture and Essentials: You'll likely need to purchase some basic furniture and household items.
• Utilities and Internet Setup Fees: Factor in the cost of setting up electricity, gas, water, and internet in your new place.
• Once you have a budget in mind (see Month One in the guide), you can determine how much you need to save before moving out comfortably.

How Do I Move Out of My Parents with No Money?

While it's challenging to move out with absolutely no money saved, there are some strategies you can consider:

• Talk to Your Parents: Discuss options like extending your stay at home while you contribute more financially or helping with chores in exchange for rent.
• Find a Roommate: Sharing an apartment significantly reduces living expenses.
• Explore Alternative Living Arrangements: Look into co-living spaces or house-hacking opportunities (living with a homeowner in exchange for rent and chores).

Need Help Finding Your First Apartment?

You've reached the final chapter of your move-out journey! Pat yourself on the back for all the hard work and planning. Moving out is a significant accomplishment, and you should be proud of yourself for taking this exciting step towards independence.

Finding the perfect apartment is crucial for a smooth transition. If you're still on the hunt for your dream place, Apartment List can help! Take our fun and easy quiz to get matched with apartments that align with your lifestyle and needs. Answer a few quick questions and unlock a world of rental possibilities.